Modern dating discourse treats hypergamy like manipulation, but biology tells a deeper story. What looks like exploitation is often a fallback protocol. What we call “hookup culture” may be nature's way of salvaging a future. This lecture-formatted essay maps the anatomy of extraction—and what it costs both men and women when coherence fails.

Modern men aren’t opting out of love—they’re assessing risk. In a collapsing economy with rising divorce rates and dwindling trust, many men are withholding commitment not out of selfishness, but survival instinct. This post breaks down why provision isn’t servitude, how bypass culture distorts relationships, and what women need to know if we want to stop losing not just our partners—but our sons.

Polarity—the natural charge between masculine and feminine energy—has been short-circuited. To understand the magnitude of this collapse, we must dissect its core components.: Relationships have become transactional, fragile, and hollow. The core problem? A corrupted polarity that no longer aligns with human nature.